Since Hua Zhe’s birth, I pretty much was thrown into (rough) uncharted waters, with very little know-how, learning as I go. Being a first-time mom, I have much fears and uncertainties, but what I am sure are these:
1. I will be a good role model for my child – After becoming a mother, I am surprised to discover in myself resilience, stamina and dedication. Parenthood makes me a stronger and better person. I understand truly well that respect is earned, and I will continue to be someone my child can look up to and emulate.
2. I will lead a balanced life – I will take courses. Go shopping. Meet up with friends. Exercise. My child deserves a happy and healthy mom!
3. I will discipline my child gently - being a recipient (I don’t want to use the word ‘victim’) of physical punishment in my childhood, I seriously doubt the benefits of such discipline method. I still can not recall what I did wrong when I was punished and all I felt was rejection. This can not be the best way to correct a child!
4. I will put my child’s interests before mine – In concrete terms, I will spend time with him even though I am busy. I will save money now so that he can have the best education. I will stay at home to raise him at least for the first few critical years. I will continously strive to become a better mother.
You have my word.
