Time of my life

Entries from July 2009

忙碌和感恩

July 31, 2009 · 2 Comments

华哲出生后,我就与以前悠闲的生活吻别了。

从清晨五六点起到晚上闭上眼睛,家务,喂奶,挤奶,烹煮,与宝贝玩,浇花。。充满了清醒的17-18个小时。但东西似乎还是做不完,每一天都有新的挑战和突发状况。但我却非常的享受在其中。

全职妈妈的工作给与我许多的成就感,满足感和快乐。看着孩子一天天的长大,悉会的技巧越来越多;看着他成为一个快乐,有安全感,有归属感的小孩,我心里有满满的感恩和喜乐。我要我的孩子有一个完整,快乐的童年,一个有父母的爱和关怀的童年。。不要经历我心里永远的遗憾。

回想之前的职场生活,生活很轻松,薪酬高,受人尊重但却充满无力感。不快乐。空虚。没有意义。那时也常常生病,并且没把自己放为优先(did not put myself as a priority)。没有运动,不注重饮食,不重视灵命。。有点混日子的感觉。以后除非有一份有意义又能予与我满足感的工作,不然我想不到任何理由要继续浪费我的生命。

我相信每个人都有自己的呼召。有些人被呼召成为牧师传道牧养羊群;另一些人被呼召成为医生律师工程师或其它的工作。他们一方面贡献人群,另一方面也找到工作的热诚。Good for them and praise the Lord!

我呢?I am first and foremost a mother.

你的呼召是什么?

Categories: Daily living · Parenting · Reflections

H1N1?

July 28, 2009 · Leave a Comment

I developed bodyaches, headache and slight sore throat today. Even though my husband reassured me that I have no fever but I seriously think that I am burning.. and shivering at the same time. I was supposed to attend my church’s LCEC meeting this evening and I hate to apply leave especially when I just had a long (about 4 months) maternity leave. But if I turn out to have swine flu, it will be only appropriate to impose self-quarantine.

Please, please, let me be well soon. I can not be sick, I have a son to take care of and my husband needs to go to KL tomorrow. I do not want to interrupt his work or send my son away. Please, I need to get well NOW!

Categories: Daily living

Journal of gratitude 23/7/09

July 23, 2009 · Leave a Comment

I’m thankful that..

My husband reversed into our main gate

Wait a minute, I thought this was supposed to be something to give thanks for? Yes yes, we are supposed to give thanks for everything remember?

Here we go again, I give thanks that my husband reversed into our main gate, so now we can finally get ourselves a new sliding gate which we had in mind yet could not bring ourselves to fork out the $$ for so long. You still with me?

As we’re getting a new gate, might as well touch up the fencing as well. As we’re at it, why not buy a big pot of plant to decorate the front door? It has to look coherent right?

So, I give thanks that our house will have a new look soon :)

Categories: Journal of gratitude

Hi remember me?

July 22, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Gosh, I can not believe how long I’ve not updated my blog. For those who know me, I am still alive. And well. And happy. For those who care to know more, read on. Here’s a quick update on what my life’s been like since you last heard from me.

I am still exclusively pumping and feeding my son breast milk. I’m only pumping 4 times a day (ie 6am, 12 noon, 6pm, 10.30pm) now which frees me up for so many things in life.. all except blogging hmm, strange.. I go out more now and can actually enjoy dinner outside the house without having to rush back to pump.

My latest passion is cooking. I like to read up recipes and imagine cooking the dishes (because my hands are tied to actually cook them). Lately, me and my good old friend, Lu Chee, have been going to cooking classes together. It is very fun to learn together and spend time with a dear friend that I am really fond of.

As for my son, he is taking 2-3 teaspoons of rice cereal 2 times a day on top of his milk now. I plan to increase his solid intake gradually from 2 to 3 times a day. According to the many books I read, his main nourishment should still comes from milk, so I’m not going to rush things. Besides that, I’m introducing one food at a time. His next gourment courses: apple, pear, potato. All pureed, mashed and strained of course.

Hua Zhe sleeps from 11pm-7/8am everyday. I can hear your oohs and aahs from here. Ya, he sleeps through the night when he was 3 months old. We did not do anything, it just happened. And now let me tell you his day time sleeping pattern in your deafening oohs and aahs. He does not sleep much during the day. He naps after almost every meal for 30 minutes – 1 hour. Sometimes his naps can be as short as 20 minutes. My mother-in-law call him “ma ni niu” in Fuchow which roughly means a kitten that wakes up ever so often to pee. Don’t ask me the origin of the saying. I do not have a cat. Does kitten wake up to pee often? Beats me. Heck, I am not even Fuchow.

Hua Zhe is now 6 months and 1 week young. He never ceases to amaze me everyday. From a helpless infant, he has become an alert, active and happy baby of his own mind. Now he can:

- laugh out loud

- squeal

- creep and change directions in a blink of an eye

- turn over from the tummy to the back and to the tummy and to the back etc. You get the picture.

- grab things. Put the valuables away!

- stand holding on for balance only

- bounce. His favourite pastime!

- sit with one hand on the floor for support

- babble “ma-ma”. Don’t be too happy yet, he only says “ma-ma” when he cries ie when he is being coerced (it certainly seems so from his wailing) into taking a nap

- respond to his name – Zhe Zhe. He does not know he is called Nathan too

Well, that’s all that I can think of and have time to share now. I have chores to catch up now being a very busy and important person and all. Ta-ta!

Categories: Kids · Parenting